Said the girl who had called me "fatty" smiling sweetly when a dress wasn't fitting me.
And who said I'm looking pregnant and should tuck my tummy in when she was filming me and another girl for a video.
Oh and also that time when she said i should've worn a darker dress because in this light one I'm looking so very fat.
And the same girl says "You've lost so much weight"
I said "yess thank you!" While smiling widely
She says "you're happy?? But you looked better before! I liked you chubby and cute"
So i said "Well everyone's gonna like me some way or the other. Some gonna like this one more and some people the earlier one"
She says "Who didn't like you before"
I replied with "My point is, i like myself right now so I'm happy"( Honestly I'm at a stage where if the whole world claims i looked better when I was fat, i wouldn't give a damn lol. I didn't lose weight to fit your beauty standards, i did it because I got PCOD and my health seemed to suffer, the fact that now I will be able to wear my favourite dresses without worrying if my belly is showing is just brownie points)
I do have some more weight to lose before i get to my desired goal.
She knows this so she said "But don't lose any more weight now, otherwise dresses won't look good at you"
I replied "They would, i know"
Honestly this didn't hurt me even one percent because I knew this will happen.
I've always been a slim girl and there were people who used to say gain some weight etc.
When I gained weight (not willingly, it was a stree period of my life and i binged like there's no tomorrow,)same people started saying subtle fatshaming things and that honestly just made me realise people are never ever gonna be happy.
I should just do what I want to.
Even before I started to lose weight, i remember telling my bestfriend how i know there are gonna be people saying "you looked better before" "missing chubby you"
So now that it has happened, I find it hilarious.
Have you gone through something similar?
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