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Monday, 31 May 2021

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 01 June 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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F/20/5’2”/SW:160/CW:153/GW:125/ It’s Finally Working!

I’ve never posted about weight loss or any adjacent topic before. And for a long time, my weight didn’t bother me—it just existed. I previously had been a competitive long distance swimmer at 135 pounds of pure cardio driven muscle. And I took that for granted.

After quitting swim, I ate little—which made me not think to why I had gained so much weight. And I finally wanted to step up and think about it. I did a week long food journal to realize my one and a half meals a day were adding up to almost 3,000kcal. Which is…. Clearly not ideal.

I kicked it into gear doing 1800kcal a day, 33/33/33 on macros, and…. Saw no progress for 3 weeks. Thought to myself, “That’s okay, that happens” and kicked it to 1700kcal for another 2 weeks— not a single pound dropped, still 160. At this point I was panicking and was in what felt like a worthless death spiral. I kept with it, no cheat days at all in regards to calories and dropped to 1500kcal.

This was a struggle for the first week, I couldn’t regulate times when I ate very well and was incredibly sluggish and ill feeling the first week. I’m thankful that this got better and now it’s just part of my schedule. So 3 weeks later, I’ve lost about 7 pounds. And I’m finally so excited to see some progress and really wanted to share— as I didn’t think it was worth sharing before when I had not lost any weight—although I had been determined, dead set, and consistent.

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24-Hour Pledge - Tuesday, 01 June 2021 - The Plan for Today!

Wake up with determination; go to bed with satisfaction!

This is our daily check-in, to help keep us accountable over the long haul. Feel free to post whatever goals will help keep you on track.

Here's the regular text on behalf of this thread's originator, kingoftheeyesores, taken with his blessing

I'll be posting a daily, 24 hour pledge to stick to my plan, or whichever small piece of my plan I am currently working on. Whatever your dietary goals may be, I hope you stick to them for the next 24 hours (and then worry about the following 24!). Who's with me?

Thanks to /u/nofollowthrough who made the 24-Hour Pledge an ongoing /r/loseit institution.

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Ex Obese of Loseit: What health problems caused by obesity were you able to revert after losing weight?

Dear people, I am struggling to get the motivation to actually stick with the changes needed to loose weight. I'm trying to focus on future health benefits.

What conditions/ pain / labs were you able to make better? How long were you obese for? And at what BMI did you get those health benefits?

As for myself there are so many more severe and concerning issues now, but one small thing just felt like the last drop lately. noticed I had an itchy skin lesion on the side of my face for many weeks and thought I might have skin cancer. Turns out it's just my old glasses from before gaining all the weight. I started using them again and haven't noticed how small they are for me and how they press on my face now. I never thought about it, glasses not fitting !

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Buying clothes still stresses me out... but for a different reason now

I have always LOVED going shopping, but it caused me immense pain. I hated how my body looked and how nothing would ever fit me "right". I nitpicked my body in every single way and couldn't buy anything because of how disgusting I felt in everything. It stressed me out so. damn. much.

I am now 30 pounds down and decided to go clothes shopping today with a friend because I had nothing new to wear.

Well, I ended up taking 11 items into the fitting room and purchasing 10 of them.

I now feel so much more comfortable trying on new clothes and I can finally shop in the same section as my friends. We even pick up the same sizes and I feel confident enough to put on a fashion show in the changing room. It's so liberating to pull whatever I want off of the clothes rack and try them on because most things fit now. And I don't hate how my body looks anymore. I get stressed because of how many clothes I want to purchase but don't have the money for lol.

I always used to tell myself "you can't wear this until you lose weight". It's such a toxic mindset and I don't wish it upon anyone in this subreddit. But i'll admit, it's a difficult thought to get rid of. So, if anything, take it as motivation. Get into the best shape of your life in a healthy way and appreciate your body because of what it can do and what it does for you on a daily basis.

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in that awkward phase of my weigh loss journey

F23, SW: 398lb, CW:333.4lb, GW: 175lb.

Ive been on my weight loss journey for about 7.5 moths now and have lost roughly 65lb. Idk if anyone relates but im in that awkward phase where I can notice a nice deal of change in my body and ppl are also starting to notice. But Im still hella fat and every part of my body looks the same but just smaller lol. Like clothes are getting looser, smaller clothes are now fitting, but at the same time nothing looks good. I know this is just a phase and Ill be seeing more results soon. I know eventually Ill get to a weight and appearance where ill be happy and like what I see. But it just sucks to wake up and look in the mirror after all this hard work and working out to still not like what I see. Anyone feel the same?

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Some days it is difficult to find joy outside of food

I have lost 14lbs since January, which I am proud of and continue to remind myself that I am farther than when I started, but this past month has been a struggle.

It may be coming down on me harder right now because of my PMS, but it's difficult to find joy in activities outside of food. I have tried to take action and do things like take a walk, read, watch tiktok, draw, listen to a podcast, take a bath, put together Amazon wish lists, video games, Youtube...etc. I end up feeling more depressed. Food is much easier. I am so sick of food being this drug over me.

I am trying really hard to make sure I eat my fruit, veggies, and protein while including fun foods throughout the week, but it is still hard and weight loss is hard. These kinds of nights are so hard.

I just want to eat to feel good, but I went to my doctors and my blood pressure is slightly elevated so if I eat continue to over eat, my health will decline and eating is just going to put a bandage over my problems for a short time and I'll only feel worse afterwards. I'll probably feel better in the morning. I'm just trying to do something like write this post so I don't go into my kitchen and overeat. I live in a small apartment so I am also sitting outside on my porch to try and get my self away from the kitchen. I want to make it through this night. I know over eating tonight will not kill me, but neither will not over eating.

If anyone has figured out something they look forward to outside of food, feel free to let me know. I could use some ideas that maybe i haven't considered or seen on a top 50 things to do list via a Google search ;n;

TL;DR trying to get through this night and not over eat. my alternate activities aren't bringing me as much joy as food. PMS is probably a factor too

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My dogs health is my inspiration

About a year ago I adopted an obese Labrador mix. She weighed 140 pounds with health issues because of her size and desperately needed to lose weight. So we started walking every day and got her on diet food. She started to lose weight faster than I did, but now that I’ve started to improve my eating habits we are both making great progress.

She’s lost about 30 pounds, and I’ve lost 25 so far. It’s so helpful having a partner to keep me motivated and accountable. So I wake up every day and choose to eat well and walk often, for both our sake!

Here’s Ivy’s transformation, and I can’t wait to post my own sometime too!

https://imgur.com/gallery/LT2GjBN

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I'm 16 years old and trying to lose weight in the summer (meal plan)

So i have posted here before about how i'm and going to be losing weight and all, but when i was asking about being on a diet and everyone is correct saying to eat, lean sources of protein,fruits, veggies, and healthy fats,etc...

Every time i research it's kind of difficult to figure out exactly what to put in the meals for lunch and dinner because there is so many options of healthy foods, so i was just wondering if anyone can give me some good plates to have for lunch and dinner or maybe recipes or something with the calories?

Right now the only thing i have in mind is scrambled egg with veggies for breakfast but that's about it, because idk why but the way i see it, having cooked stuff like chicken,steak,etc.. in a everyday meal i shouldn't/don't want to have but if i'm completely wrong please let me know as well

Thank you

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Recently started calorie deficit and more exercise. I'm hoping for massive face gains, super insecure about my thick neck and chubby cheeks. Did anyone else have a similar issue to mine?

Mostly asking because I need some motivation. I really hate the way my lower face looks which is the main driving force behind why I'm losing weight in the first place. I want to be able to see my jaw lol, the lower half of my face kinda looks like a thumb XD

Anyways just wondering if there is anyone else who struggled with or is struggling with a similar issue. Maybe does anyone have and tips to make my neck / cheeks tighter?

My weight is dispersed in my body super strangely I feel like. I have barely any fat on my arms at all, a little bit of a belly but it looks kinda average, SUPER MASSIVE thick thighs (like seriously three or more times bigger than my hand when I sit down) and a massively thick neck.

I don't really know where I'm going with this but I've lost 4 kilos since I started my calorie deficit about 4 weeks ago, so I'm going well I think haha

Currently 89 kilos and I stand just under 5'11

Thanks for reading my rambling :D

my face front

my face side

(it looks way worse when I put my head completely straight, but thankfully my neck leans forward naturally lol)

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30 Day Accountability Challenge - Day 31 Wrap Ups!

Hello losers,

Here's the sign up post for next month!

https://redd.it/nomn44

Weigh in daily, enter in Libra & remove moral judgement/stigma/shame directed at yourself about it: I'm down 4 pounds this month. I'm feeling way better about that. I am more than just this number.

1800 7 days: I have had better months & worse months. I feel more in control of this lately but it is still been difficult. I'm fighting a resurgence of an eating disorder

Exercise 5 days a week: As always, I'd like to be doing more strength & higher intensity stuff. 25/31 days.

Alone time to word vomit into journal: Hitting it up right now. Need to do more! I've been a bum & playing too much Animal Crossing.

Gratitude list: Today I'm grateful for my stationary bike. Cardio on easy mode when it's raining. I'd like to spend more meaningful energy here too but I've got a good habit established.

Your turn kids! Wrap up tell us all how the month went.

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How much protein actually matters?

So I've been planning what to eat for dinner, and in order to hit my goal of 135 g or protein (2 g per kg of weight), I have to basically make a shake with protein powder, greek yogurt and a bit of raspberries.

And the total still comes up to over 1600 ccal, while I wanted to stay below 1400.

So I was thinking: does eating this much protein actually matter? I workout regularly, but since gyms are still closed, my workouts are mostly running, HIIT with kettlebell, bodyweight and heavy jump ropes, and biking. I used to lift heavy back when gyms were open.

My workouts are pretty hard. I know it's a myth and everything, but unless I'm sweating buckets and my pulse is over the roof, I don't consider it a workout. I also kinda eat a lot too, so that contributes to slower weight loss. Sometimes I have binge episode.

My current goal is to be a skinny bitch.

And I want to be honest with myself. I don't care that much about fitness goals or feeling good — I'm already feeling fantastic, I'm strong and can run for a long time. It's all about vanity — I just want to be skinny.

But now, I feel like I don't really engage muscles all that much.

So question for the audience: does it really make sense to eat that much protein? Or should my priority just be less calories? Does anyone has experience of losing fat while increasing protein intake — with increased calories? Or maybe it's the opposite — cutting calories including protein calories, bumped your weight loss?

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First maintenance break was a success!!

I’ve been losing weight since January (down about 25 lbs of my 100 lb goal). Very pleased with my progress, but in April I started feeling pretty emotionally fatigued from my new lifestyle, and found myself wanting to “cheat” more and more regularly. So I decided to take a maintenance break in May, and allow myself to work out less (not every single day) and eat at TDEE, not below, as well as take a break from tracking every single calorie. I also stopped weighing myself during this period for about 3 weeks. Stepped on the scale for the first time today, and lo and behold I lost 1 pound! I was very nervous that I was going to have gained multiple pounds, so it’s very reassuring that I can take these maintenance breaks when my body needs a break and not have to stress about losing all my progress. Feeling recharged and ready to get back on track and tackle the next 25 lbs!

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I was down to 398 from 436. Started OMAD on 4-20-21. Had a pretty bad weekend binge

Basically I've been doing good the past 6 weeks. But I slipped up pretty bad this weekend with a massive stress caused binge. Saturday I was fine but Sunday I wound up having chili dogs as well as carrot cake and 2 pints of Ben and Jerry's ice cream. Then today I had chili dogs again, a milk shake, pack of reeses cups, soft pretzels and a big Ole cookie.

While I know its impossible to undo all my progress with this slip up and that nost weight gained will be temporary retention I still fell terrible. I feel bloated and super backed up. The working out has been pretty easy because at out point I used to be super into weights. Just frustrated I let myself binge like this here's to hoping this is the last time. Food it's by foliar the worst addiction I have ever battled with.

Best thing I can do is hit it back hard tomorrow. Just wanted to post this to hold myself accountable. And maybe if anyone else messed up this weekend you will see this too. While I'm not ok with what I did the best thing I can do is hold myself accountable but move on in the right direction.

Edit: when I really think about it I used to eat just as much as this if not worse or more food everyday. Normally not as many sweets but easily more food then this. The fact of how upset I am with myself and not just shrugging it off is a good thing. Thinking about how great I've felt the past few weeks and how much lower my blood pressure has gotten in a short time vs how I feel now after one weekend of bad eating is incredible. I need to remember this difference in feeling. I can only imagine how much better it will be 150 pounds from now.

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Sunday, 30 May 2021

24-Hour Pledge - Monday, 31 May 2021 - The Plan for Today!

Wake up with determination; go to bed with satisfaction!

This is our daily check-in, to help keep us accountable over the long haul. Feel free to post whatever goals will help keep you on track.

Here's the regular text on behalf of this thread's originator, kingoftheeyesores, taken with his blessing

I'll be posting a daily, 24 hour pledge to stick to my plan, or whichever small piece of my plan I am currently working on. Whatever your dietary goals may be, I hope you stick to them for the next 24 hours (and then worry about the following 24!). Who's with me?

Thanks to /u/nofollowthrough who made the 24-Hour Pledge an ongoing /r/loseit institution.

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SV/NSV Feats of the Day - Monday, 31 May 2021: Today, I conquered!

The habit of persistence is the habit of victory!

Celebrating something great? Scale Victory, Non-Scale Victory, Progress, Milestones -- this is the place! Big or small, long or short, please post here and help us focus all of today's awesomeness into an inspiring and informative mega-dose of greatness! (Details are appreciated!! How are you losing your weight?)

* Did you just change your flair? pass a milestone? reach a goal?

* Did you log for an entire week? or year?

* Did you take the stairs? walk a mile? jog for 3? set a new personal record?

* Fit into your old pair of jeans? throw away your fat clothes? fit into your college outfit?

Post it here! This is the new, improved place for recording your acts of awesomeness!

Due to space limitations, this may be an announcement (sticky) only occasionally. Please find it daily and keep it the hottest thing on /r/loseit!

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Small victories to celebrate one month of this journey!

Hi r/loseit! I've been hanging around this sub for a while now but I didn't officially take weight loss seriously until about a month ago when some health issues came into play. Long story short, doctor said I need to lose weight.

It has been challenging to make changes to my lifestyle but surprisingly not as bad as I thought it would be. I cut out dairy, cut down on bread/rice/potatoes, started eating salad for lunch, cut down my portions to a real serving size, and started CICO. I've been exercising regularly by walking/jogging, biking, going to classes at the gym (never thought I'd be doing Zumba but here we are!). I switched from soda or juice to coke zero or lacroix. I'm working on learning to eat only when I'm hungry and not just when I'm bored or think about food.

Today, I finally started to see the changes. My face looks different. My stomach looks smaller. My clothes are looser. I dont feel stuffed all the time. My skin is clear. My rings fit more comfortably. My bra isn't tight. And I'm only 2 lbs down on the scale???

If this is what my life could look like with just a month's worth of work, then bring on a whole summer of good health habits! I'm ready for it! I have a long way to go before I'm at my goal weight but this start is encouraging.

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Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Monday, 31 May 2021? Start here!

Today is your Day 1?

Welcome to r/Loseit!

So you aren’t sure of how to start? Don’t worry! “How do I get started?” is our most asked question. r/Loseit has helped our users lose over 1,000,000 recorded pounds and these are the steps that we’ve found most useful for getting started.

Why you’re overweight

Our bodies are amazing (yes, yours too!). In order to survive before supermarkets, we had to be able to store energy to get us through lean times, we store this energy as adipose fat tissue. If you put more energy into your body than it needs, it stores it, for (potential) later use. When you put in less than it needs, it uses the stored energy. The more energy you have stored, the more overweight you are. The trick is to get your body to use the stored energy, which can only be done if you give it less energy than it needs, consistently.

Before You Start

The very first step is calculating your calorie needs. You can do that HERE. This will give you an approximation of your calorie needs for the day. The next step is to figure how quickly you want to lose the fat. One pound of fat is equal to 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of fat per week you will need to consume 500 calories less than your TDEE (daily calorie needs from the link above). 750 calories less will result in 1.5 pounds and 1000 calories is an aggressive 2 pounds per week.

Tracking

Here is where it begins to resemble work. The most efficient way to lose the weight you desire is to track your calorie intake. This has gotten much simpler over the years and today it can be done right from your smartphone or computer. r/loseit recommends an app like MyFitnessPal, Loseit! (unaffiliated), or Cronometer. Create an account and be honest with it about your current stats, activities, and goals. This is your tracker and no one else needs to see it so don’t cheat the numbers. You’ll find large user created databases that make logging and tracking your food and drinks easy with just the tap of the screen or the push of a button. We also highly recommend the use of a digital kitchen scale for accuracy. Knowing how much of what you're eating is more important than what you're eating. Why? This may explain it.

Creating Your Deficit

How do you create a deficit? This is up to you. r/loseit has a few recommendations but ultimately that decision is yours. There is no perfect diet for everyone. There is a perfect diet for you and you can create it. You can eat less of exactly what you eat now. If you like pizza you can have pizza. Have 2 slices instead of 4. You can try lower calorie replacements for calorie dense foods. Some of the communities favorites are cauliflower rice, zucchini noodles, spaghetti squash in place of their more calorie rich cousins. If it appeals to you an entire dietary change like Keto, Paleo, Vegetarian.

The most important thing to remember is that this selection of foods works for you. Sustainability is the key to long term weight management success. If you hate what you’re eating you won’t stick to it.

Exercise

Is NOT mandatory. You can lose fat and create a deficit through diet alone. There is no requirement of exercise to lose weight.

It has it’s own benefits though. You will burn extra calories. Exercise is shown to be beneficial to mental health and creates an endorphin rush as well. It makes people feel *awesome* and has been linked to higher rates of long term success when physical activity is included in lifestyle changes.

Crawl, Walk, Run

It can seem like one needs to make a 180 degree course correction to find success. That isn’t necessarily true. Many of our users find that creating small initial changes that build a foundation allows them to progress forward in even, sustained, increments.

Acceptance

You will struggle. We have all struggled. This is natural. There is no tip or trick to get through this though. We encourage you to recognize why you are struggling and forgive yourself for whatever reason that may be. If you overindulged at your last meal that is ok. You can resolve to make the next meal better.

Do not let the pursuit of perfect get in the way of progress. We don’t need perfect. We just want better.

Additional resources

Now you’re ready to do this. Here are more details, that may help you refine your plan.

* Lose It Compendium - Frame it out!

* FAQ - Answers to our most Frequently Asked Questions!

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Anyone else lost a ton of weight and been a bit underwhelmed by it? And now you have no excuses for why your life is so stunted

I've lost almost 240lbs, please do not congratulate me on this as I never should have let myself get to 450+lbs in the first place.

Of course yes I feel better than I did when I was super morbidly obese, I'm fit and healthy and have no doubt added time to my life. My life is better in every single aspect. No more medications, less headaches, less tired, more energy etc etc.

That said, I can't help feel a bit underwhelmed, I'm not sure what it is, maybe because it's such a gradual process, and there's no solid finish line. I used my weight as a crutch, an excuse for why I was happy staying in a dead end job, why I couldn't date and have relationsips or friendships. Now that the weight is (mostly) gone, I feel exposed, there's no excuses anymore. And it makes me feel a bit uneasy.

It's probably just because this has all happened so fast, not sure, could also be because I'm in my mid 30's now and things like dating go up in difficulty by several orders of magnitude at our age. Just curous if anyone else has been through this, that has gone from being practically disabled and destined to an early death, to basically having a second chance at life.

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I maintained my weight during a 2 week visit from family!

31F 5'2" SW 165 CW 139 GW 135

I did keto for about 4 months, and after reaching my first goal weight I transitioned back into carbs about a week before we had a 2 week visit from family (SIL and her husband). I knew we'd have a lot family meals including lots of carbs (and alcohol) and I wanted to enjoy myself, but was also scared about ruining all my progress. My last weigh in before their trip I was 139.7. A week into their trip, I was 139.7. They left yesterday, and today I weighed 139.7! This is a big milestone for me. I typically tend to go all or nothing with my eating habits. While I definitely watched what I ate and modified portions/macros/timings of other meals to fit around their schedule and what I knew would be on the menu, I did indulge with sweets, alcohol, and more carbs than I've eaten this year. However, I also exercised a lot (indoor cycling and strength training), which I think was key for not gaining weight during this time. I always see that diet is for losing weight, exercise is for maintaining. This makes me feel hopeful - if I can maintain weight loss around a lot of temptation, I should be able to do it long term as well!

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[Challenge] European Accountability Challenge: May 31st, 2021

Hi team Euro accountability, I hope you’re all well!

For anyone new who wants to join today, this is a daily post where you can track your goals, keep yourself accountable, get support and have a chat with friendly people at times that are convenient for European time zones. Check-in daily, weekly, or whatever works best for you. It’s never the wrong time to join! Anyone and everyone are welcome! Tell us about yourself and let's continue supporting each other.

Let us know how your day is going, or, if you're checking in early, how your yesterday went!

Share your victories, rants, problems, NSVs, SVs, we are here!

I want to shortly also mention — this thread lives and breathes by people supporting each other :) so if you have some time, comment on the other posts! Show support, offer advice and share experiences :)

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I've cut on sugar intake. 5 days - 0 grams. I feel this time I can make it

I've been consuming lots of sugar, without control, a big part of my life. I'm afraid that consequences will come in some terrific form as a diabetes type 2, damaged bones, teeths, visceral fat or so.

Luckily, by now, my health is in very good condition, have done searches, and everything is good. I'm 34, about 110kg, and 183 height.

I had a phases without sugar intake in my life, couple of years ago, even 40 days without it, but in short time, as I thought that i have control over it, it took me back to start.

Now, as I moved to new country 8 months ago, I had a total new phase with trying all the new candies and sweeteners, but that's just an excuse. I'm eating too much sugar, too much chocolate. After every meal I can eat something sweet, and it summs up to 6-7 times a day.

Some days I've tried to burn in with exercise. I love sports, and I am active, and that's a main reason why I don't have 140kg, but instead of loosing weight, I am fighting to stay at the same spot...And my joints definitely feel my weight.

Loosing weight, healthy diet, exercising, are not strange to me, but my main, all time life enemy is sugar in all of his forms, and I'm fighting with him since I know myself.

That's why beeing completely without it for 5 days is huge to me, and that's why I'm writing this post in hope that I can get some support and advice, because I'm sure hard days will come, my mind will again try to convince me that I'm in control, that I can relax, and my enemy is going to take his chance to reset me once again.

Thanks for reading! Stay stong on your way, it's all in our minds...

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Long time reader, first time poster

Hey everyone. This is my second post on Reddit as I am more of a reader than a writer. However, it seems like after losing weight, body dysmorphia is pretty common, and I’d like to share an experience about it.

Long story short, I’m down about 100 pounds from January of last year. I’m at the lowest weight of my adult life at 195 pounds, just 15 pounds away from my goal. Today was a good day. The family and I went to a clothing store and I fit in a size medium light coat. This is huge because I was in a 3xl at my largest and probably haven’t fit into a medium since middle school. I wrapped up the day with a semi-healthy dinner and a workout and, then, it happened.

I had my shirt off, about to grab a towel to take a shower and my 6 year old daughter comes up to me and lifts up my stomach. She says, “You have a big stomach. It’s not supposed to hang down like this, it’s jiggly.” My wife went on to explain to her that, sometimes when losing weight, people keep excess skin. My daughter apologized and went on her way. I didn’t say anything. I go into the bathroom and look in the mirror. She’s right. I still see the big stomach and flabby skin and I feel completely detailed. I know she’s little and probably didn’t mean anything by what she said, and it’s silly that it even bugs me this badly but it does. Has anyone else run into this? I’m not happy with how my body looks because it’s still a work in progress, but I definitely felt like I was back to my old 300 pound self.

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Eating during the night and some advice

Hay y’all! I’m trying to lose a good 60 to 70 pounds. I’m currently 280 pounds and I was 305 about 2 months ago. I’m working out everyday( mostly cardio) , eating right, and not drink alcohol at all. I also am drinking about 2 gallons of water a day because I read that you are supposed to drink a ounce of water a day for every pound you weigh if your trying to lose weight. For the past 10 days I can’t seem to get past that 280 mark and looking for a little advice on how can I improve. Also another fact is that I wake up during the night and be a bit hungry so when I wake up I get a granola bar and a glass of milk and eat that almost every night. Is that ok to eat during the night when your trying to lose weight. I’m trying to get to my ideal weight and size by Christmas so I want to get it right and appreciate any feedback. THANKS YALL!

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Day 0: Starting at 5:00am EST

I just took the first step and signed up for 5:00am weekday classes starting tomorrow at Burn Bootcamp and I got my mom to join me to keep me going/make me feel obligated to go (though she’s starting Tuesday as she’s been working all week and watching my toddler all weekend and needs a veg/lazy day). If I don’t have a steady gym partner then I slack off and end up ditching entirely.

I’m 24f, 5’5” and 258lbs, size 20-22. I don’t 100% care about weight loss as I understand I can and likely will add muscle mass but I’d like to at least get back to a 14 or 16 and have more energy to raise and play with my toddler.

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Motivation Monday. Get and give motivation for yourself or others.

"Why I need or how I found motivation."

Just starting and need a kick in the pants?

Hit a rough spot and need a pick-me-up?

This is the place to give and receive a little motivation.

Please revisit this post through the week to help motivate yourself and others!

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NSV: 410 days of tracking calories.

This pop up has never looked so good.

I can’t say I haven’t missed a day, but I have gone back at 12:17am and hit the back button, updated dinner, then hit finished. Between a horrible breakup to my dog being sick to having surgery, CICO has been the only constant.

I’ve lost 60lbs, from male, 5’5” and ~240 to also a male, still short af and 180? I’m doing my damndest. Surgery recovery has been the hardest, because I couldn’t eat for the longest time and now that I can one of my new medications has me STARVING.

So it’s been protein and water intake. Beans and hummus and salad, and water. Lots and lots of water. I go on long walks now, since I’m not allowed to run yet, and I drink water.

But I’m still on this journey. My doctor is thrilled for me, and said I can stop whenever I’d like. Ideally I would like to get to 165, that’s sort of the dream number. But I’m no longer desperate fo see the scale drop down. I’m no longer aching for see the number consistently go down, as long as it isn’t going up. Summer is harder, because I know I’ll get busier, grab jerky for lunch instead of making a salad because it’s all go and no rest.

But that’s ok. I’m ok. I’ve been working my rear end off at this and I’m slowly getting back from surgery and I’m OK. This is gonna be alright. I won’t make as much progress this year as I did last year, but I also don’t have that much progress to make! I’m more or less 2/3rds of the way done, and I’m ok with that. If I hit my goal by Christmas this year I’ll be stoked.

If not? I now got in a medium shirt, my pants have gone from jeans size 40 to 32, my knees don’t hurt, I’m not out of breath jogging across the street when the light is about to change. Things are easier, I have more energy, and one of my favorite parts?

I always have leftovers. I rarely eat an entire entree at a restaurant, I no longer eat an entire box of Mac and cheese, and I think I’ve gone to bed with an over-eating belly ache twice in the last year. That’s it. Because I know and understand so much more now.

So for all you short guys out there, keep on keepin’ on. It just takes one day at a time.

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Questions to ask when your diet fails or when you struggle to stay on it...

do you like your diet foods? do you feel hungry? are you an emotional eater? are you eating enough volume? are you eating often enough? is your deficit too extreme? is there too much temptation around you?

there are many reasons diets fail. but there are also many solutions

eat foods you like, find calorie and portion controlled recipes you love. dont let yourself get hungry, eat more often, eat bigger volume meals. address your emotional issues, find other outlets. find low-calorie dense foods you can binge on without caloric surpluses (popcorn is 300calories per 8 cups of popcorn! strawberries are 40calories per 100g!) . dont be afraid to change your macros, the time of your meals, and the volumes of each meal. dont be afraid to set a smaller deficit if it means you can truly stick to it. find a diet you can stick to for the rest of your life, do not 'yo yo diet'. If you have temptation around you; remove it, or remove yourself. Do whatever you have to do to stick to your diet and be happy 365 days a year

what other problems are there? how can they be solved? what did i miss?

help us all make a plan! failing to plan is planning to fail so we need this! We need good habits in place so we are NOT reliant on willpower. willpower fails; good habits last!

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Confidence

M20, 5’7”, SW: 92kg, CW: 70kg/154lbs

So today was the first time I took full body pictures after my 20kg weight loss. It was the first time I actually felt so so so confident taking full body pictures. It’s crazy because I feel and look like a completely brand new person, even my siblings didn’t recognise the new me and were surprised. At times it’s a bit weird because I genuinely don’t recognise my new self and I get like a really strange sensation not sure how to explain it😅.

But anyways I thought back to my former bigger self and I really do pity him, he went through so much to get to where I am today and I know this sounds a bit weird but I do wish he had the same confidence back then that the new me has today, life would have been so much easier. But hey it’s in the past now and I’ve kinda learned to make peace with it so I can finally move on.

However, after a lot of thinking I’ve come to the realisation that I use to use me being fat as a “scapegoat” I’d say for a lot of my problems. For example not wearing certain clothes because I would think that it wouldn’t look nice on me or not talking to certain girls because I thought that they’d reject me because of my weight. But that was never the case, it was all in my head because I was such in a negative mindset at the time. Now that the weight has come off I’ve had to address those problems because it wasn’t actually about my weight, it was about me!

Which is why it’s essential to love yourself and be comfortable in your body no matter what before the weight loss journey. Or learn to love yourself day by day whilst you’re on it, even if you’re not on one! It may be hard but I promise you, you’ll never regret it.

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Measurements to sizing

I am so confused and feel really dumb right now. I have lost 60 lbs l, still need to lose plenty more, but right now I need to buy some better fitting clothes. Where I am, dressing rooms are all closed, so I cant try anything on. I have measured myself, I probably should have measured at the beginning before losing weight also. But when I do my chest/waist/hip measurements, and compare it to a chart, it says i should be wearing like a 3x. But my clothes all fall off of me now. Like a size 18 womens Jeans, they fall off me while I'm cooking. So, maybe I am measuring wrong, but I keep doing the measurements and the numbers I am getting are not translating into clothing well for me. I suppose I was probably wearing the wrong size all along. But I have not a Damn clue what size to even attempt and I cant try them on. I feel embarrassed by the measurements.... heres what I got today - 46 inch waist, 48 in hip. But my size 44 mens, and size 18 womens, pants fall off of me. Starting weight was 320, and I am now at 260.

Any tips, I am honestly scared to go clothes shopping because it has always been such a deflating experience. I feel good about my weight loss til Iook at these numbers.

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30 Day Accountability Challenge - Day 30

Hello losers,

Sunday Sunday! For the US folks hopefully y'all have tomorrow off too. Feel free to wrap up here or tomorrow folks!

Anyone meal prepping anything fun today?

Here's the sign up post for next month!

https://redd.it/nomn44

Weigh in daily, enter in Libra & remove moral judgement/stigma/shame directed at yourself about it: Weighed in & recorded this morning. I am more than just this number.

1800 7 days: On it today!

Exercise 5 days a week: Rest day. 24/30 days.

Alone time to word vomit into journal: Hitting it up right now.

Gratitude list: Today I'm grateful for rain & quiet time.

Your turn kids! I hope you're out there getting after those goals!

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Going on a whole foods diet reset and I'm excited!

I'm very excited because I've finally decided to really give weight loss my all. I've decided that this week, I'm eating only whole foods as close as I can to their natural state, and exercising 30 minutes per day. It doesn't matter if I'm sad, upset, really craving something else, I don't care. I need to show myself that I can do it so I can jump start my weight loss and hopefully kick a bit of sugar dependency. My meals are looking like this, feel free to suggest any tweaks:

Breakfast: 2 eggs, 1 slice of whole wheat toast, cottage cheese, coffee

Lunch: Snack plate consisting of turkey, cheese, sliced bell peppers, cucumbers, baby carrots, and a fruit (either strawberries, an orange, or an apple)

Dinner: Chicken breast or fish filet, steamed broccoli or brussel sprouts, rice or roasted potatoes, and salad

Snacks (if needed): Fruit, yogurt, nuts, boiled eggs, sliced veggies, apple with peanut butter, milk

I can't do IF or keto or anything super restrictive like that because I have a history of disordered eating, but I'm going to limit myself to eating only before 8pm. I have also downloaded Lose It! and have the ability to track my macros and calorie needs that way. Thanks for looking!

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My weight lose journey

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Just a rant about bloating

So I'm kind of sad right now and I don't think anyone else would really understand me right now.

I started my weight loss in july 2019. I have lost half the weight so far (-25kgs) I am 72 kgs but I'm quite short (157cm) so I still look quite chubby. The thing is that I have trouble with pcos and thyroid. They are not that bad since I don't need medication yet but they are messing with my metabolism and my doctor has warned me about it. I can't lose weight unless I eat less than 1000 cals per day. That made me get on a diet for a while then spent some time in maintenance. I'm kind of tired because the last couple of months since January I can't seem to lose weight. Every time I start my diet I end up binging. I know it's because I overly restrict. So in February I tried eating 1200 cals a day. I was not hungry but I did it for three months and I only lost one kg . I was so disappointed I gained it all back in a binge. This week I started my diet and it's going fairly well. I don't feel hungry . Maybe because it's summer and I'm more hungry in winter. I don't work out because I don't have the time really. I've lost one kg so far in a little over a week but ....

The last 3 days I've been so bloated I look 7 months pregnant and I feel so constipated.I'm expecting my period (it is a few days late) so it's natural but this hasn't happened before usually it would happen the day before my period and it would leave on my first day of period. Now at 72 kgs I still look chubby but I'm kind of small in my tummy and waist. I looked lean a few days ago but now I look like I carry a basketball. And a big one at that.

I was already feeling kind of bad but I was keeping it cool until today...

A friend of mine called me and asked me if I wanted to go on a trip with her and some friends of hers on Friday (in 5 days). They will go to an island nearby. Now I'm so sad. What if I look so big by then. I said yes when she asked me because it's one the second outing after lockdown rules were armed in my country. I also want to meet new people and socialize . But when all of my clothes look so tight on me and there is fat rolls over my jeans that looked loose a couple days ago I get this urge to decline. I was always like that. Even when I was a teenager and at 50 kgs I declined even to the thought that I might look fat on the day of an outing.

I want to go but I also want to feel good in my body. This hasn't happened to me for the past 7 months I was in lockdown. Why does it have to happen now? I feel like I want to cry. The only reason i don't is because as a person I can't cry except in really bad situations like death or smth.

I'm also scared that if I go and feel uncomfortable I will be quiet all day and feel like everyone judges me even though that's not true.

I'm desperate. I need this bloating to go. I need my period to come before Friday. I don't know what to do. I just. I just want to live life and not care about how I look. But at the same time my problem right now is not my weight or how big I am but the bloating.

Oof... I really am lost and sad and feel desperate and like things are out of control. Why is my body doing be so dirty? Why didn't I lose weight all of those months ? If I had lost more weight would that bloating bother me now.? Probably yes but still I can't help but think that way.

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My mom ruins my dieting (rant)

I'm very sad and confused.

I'm trying to lose weight. I'm not perfect with it but I do count my cico and i exercise several times a week.

However my mom who is living with me now, makes me hate it.

She thinks low calorie is good, high calorie is bad. Automatically. Also she just makes up what she decides to be high or low calorie. She tells me that cheese is low calories and salmon is high.

She constantly gives advice no matter how many times I say I don't need them. She never lost more than 5lbs, her advice aren't valid IMHO.

Sometimes I break my diet. She would comment on that.

Sometimes I eat at night. She would comeht on that.

I usually eat within my calorie intake range and I'm able to eat sweets and biscuits but whenever she sees me eating one she would say that I was not going to lose weight eating sugary food.

And today she have made me cry literally. I make myself a mozzarella salad with some oil and seasoning. It was very calorie dence, which I prefer to count precisely. She asked me for to try a piece. I let her but when she asked for another one. I said that she couldn't and explained why. She started to act insulted, saying that "you can't share with your own mother!" and "5 calories won't make a difference" (It def weren't 5 calories) and the most hurtful one was "you ate at kfc last night, you weren't counting those calories, and today you suddenly are crazy about those 5 or 10 calories"

It hurt so much, I cried loudly and did bad things to myself which I'm not proud of.

What should I do? I tried talking with her, she would say "yes, i have understood" and then she does the same things.

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How to transition off Keto

I was going to post this on r/Keto, but the people over there honestly don’t seem to like when stop doing Keto or talk even remotely negatively about it

So for the past month (35 days to be more accurate) I’ve been doing the Keto diet to help with my weight loss, as I had hit a plateau and was stuck hovering around 220lbs for months. 35 days later and I now weight 196.2 (the lowest I’ve weighed in five years!!!). The diet definitely worked for me, but it’s been miserable. I don’t really enjoy eating food anymore and I’ve been so tired and energy deprived that it takes me a week to recover from doing a basic workout. Now that I’ve broken through my Plateau quite substantially I’d like to transition back to a more normal weight loss diet.

But honestly, stopping Keto seems really intimidating. I know that it’s a gradual process, so I’m planning on adding back in 20g of carbs a week until I hit 120, which is a good amount for standard weight loss. have no idea what my Macros should be or what percentage of my calorie should be protein or fat, and I’m terrified of messing up my transition back to eating normally and gaining the weight back.

If it matters at all, my current macros are 20g carbs, 94g protein, and 117g fat.

Has anyone else ever transitioned off Keto before, and if so would I be able to get some advice? I’m finding so much conflicting info online that idk what I’m supposed to do.

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30 Day Accountability Challenge - June Sign Ups

Hello lovely losers,

It's almost June!

For the newbies to the sub reddit, please start here, so much good info!

https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/wiki/quick_start_guide

https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/wiki/faq

And hey, maybe it’s not a bad idea to review them anyway to you returning conquerors. I do occasionally to remind myself of the basics.

Here’s what we do in the DAC my friends!

This is the sign up post (and day 1) to outline your goals, weight loss, self care, creative, whatever keeps your motor going.

There will be a daily update post for you to chime in about how day whatever is going!

At the end of the month, there is a wrap up post to reflect on the progress you made or didn’t make & what you learned. Learning is progress my friends!

We try to foster a supportive, caring place to discuss the actual day to day of deficits & counting & caring so much about how we fuel our bodies & lives. So be kind, interact if you like & hopefully you feel supported by the internet version of a push up bra! Leading by example, here I go!

Weigh in daily, enter in Libra & remove moral judgement/stigma/shame directed at yourself about it: I am more than just this number.

1800 calories (tracking in 5 day cycles, weekends at maintenance):

Exercise 5 days a week: Loving it. X/X days.

Alone time to word vomit into journal: I need to be making more time for this. Got some lists to make, goals to conquer!

Gratitude list: Today I'm grateful for - Very important to my mental health & feeling grounded.

Your turn kids! Hit me with your best goals!

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I have gone for a 20 min or more walk 6 out of 7 days this week and I am super proud of myself!!!

As the title said, I've been on walks 6 of 7 days this week. Not a big deal usually, but for me it's special. My exercise used to be counted as just working at my retail job. Which still consists of walking, lifting, etc. But really shouldn't be considered actually working out. But I've been slowly trying to lose weight and get more active since April. That is when is started IF. I have even lost 15 lbs since then. But I know exercise a must to lose more. The thing that has got me actually motivated? I re-downloaded Pokemon go. Even though I'm close to my fourties, this is the thing that getting me off my ass.... I even got myself to use my roommate's treadmill when it was downpour rain the other day. I didn't enjoy that as much as exploring my neighborhood though. I think my goal for next week is to do 7/7!

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How do you find the motivation to avoid unnecessary food?

I've been trying to lose weight for a while, but I haven't seen results so far. I'm a really picky eater, but I managed to find a way to work around it and eat food I like while also losing weight. It actually works and I was starting to see results, which made me extremely happy and proud. But no matter how much effort I put into it, I always end up falling for junk food after a week or two of effort. How do you guys avoid falling for it? I've tried deleting all food delivery apps and budgeting my salary to avoid spending money on that kind of stuff, but no matter what I do I fall for it again every couple of weeks. I don't even need to lose that much weight, I just want to lose 10-15 Kilos. Help a brother in need please.

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Are “healthy” frozen meals a good start to weight loss? (Such as super nature frozen meals)

I’ve tried many things in the past to lose weight but couldn’t stick to it.

Now I’m thinking it might be easier for me to eat the same thing every day (and easy options because biggest part is I hate cooking to make healthy meals all day):

B: uncle Toby’s sachet oats w banana

L: super nature frozen meal (microwaved) (or similar brand if I find more)

S: wholemeal/grain bagel w avocado

D: veg & some type of meat, w potato

Desert and other snacks if still hungry: fruit

Is this a good start? I know some people would think this is unhealthy but for me who eats whatever, and is 50kg overweight.. I am hoping this is a good start. I feel like this will help establish proper meals (rather than eating whatever throughout the day) as well as smaller/normal sized meals.

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I need advice on why I’m not losing any weight

So about a month and a half ago (roughly), I tried to start losing weight again (F, 195). I started incorporating more protein and healthier things overall in my diet.

In the mornings, i make eggs. A lot of the time I’ll add 1/4 cup of cheese and a toasted corn tortilla so I don’t get tired of eggs. For lunch, I either drink a premixed protein shake or make a fruit smoothie (frozen and fresh fruit, almond milk, tsp of pre workout). For dinner I’ll have a salad, maybe eggs if I’m really hungry, or snack on pieces of veggies. If I snack throughout the day, it will be either a Kind bar or another protein shake or two depending on how hungry I get. I’ve cut out Coke Zero that I used to drink several cans a day of, to a can every few days. I’ve taken up walking/jogging and boxing on VR, but I’m still working on a more solid and consistent schedule for that. I just signed up for the gym again, so that should make it easier.

Since I’ve started, I’ve been hovering between 192 and 198. I get so depressed every time I get on the scale, I just don’t understand why I’m not losing weight. Most days I struggle to even hit 800 calories, because the protein just keeps me full I guess. Is it because I’m not eating around 1200 calories? I’m not discouraged to keep trying because I really want to get to 140 lbs, I’m just not entirely sure what’s going on with my lack of progress.

Sorry for the wall of text, I just really need advice, because it’s really impacted my mental state.

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Saturday, 29 May 2021

Feeling better, but a long way to go still! SW: 380, CW: 317, GW: 230 (pics inside)

I have always struggled with my weight. I yoyo'd quite a bit over the years - going up to 330, down to 245, back up to 300, down to 260, and most recently up to 380.

In the past year, though, I decided I really needed to do something about it, especially since I had been diagnosed as prediabetic. That was something of a wake up call, and I found myself trying to figure out how to lose the weight.

So, after some searching, I found that intermittent fasting may work for me. I had a friend that it worked really for, too, so I decided to try it. I found that it came pretty naturally to me. I skipped breakfast and sometimes lunch, and would try to eat better dinners and cut out the late night snacking (this was always my weak spot, being a night owl and all). So, I would stick with a 16/8 or 20/4 schedule, depending on the day and the demands on my time for work. I also go to a few high intensity MMA classes per week to help.

And so far over lost over 80 lbs! A good chunk of that has just been in the past few months since I actually started tracking my weight a bit more closely. Watching it go down seems to be giving me greater motivation to remain disciplined. Plus, I recently got my blood work done and found that not only am I in pretty good shape, but I managed to reverse the prediabetic diagnosis =).

I've still got another 90 or so to go, but I'm determined get there!

Progress pics - the first one is from June of 2019, but my SW is based on a doctor visit in early 2020 (so, god only knows how much more I weighed in the first pic!); the second pic is from last week, but reflects how I look today =).

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NSV: I ran a half marathon today

I started running again in February of this year and could only manage 3-4k at a time. I kept at it and ran a half marathon this morning! I signed up for a virtual event a few weeks ago but I actually decided against it because I thought I wouldn’t be able.

I’m in our little holiday home in west Clare at the moment. I woke up this morning and thought “I’m gonna run a half marathon after breakfast”, and I did. I ran from a place called Carrigaholt to Kilkee and included a coastal cliff route to take me to the full 21.1k distance. It took me 2 hours and 11 minutes.

Then I went for a 6k walk with my family in the afternoon.

I’m exhausted. Lol.

8kg to go to reach my goal weight and I’m feeling so strong!

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Ah sh*t, here we go again 🤡

If it isn't my sorry arse downloading MFP for the nth time. My biggest saboteur, and biggest hater: me, was in fighting good weight and physical condition before the lockdown and has gained a whopping 33 kgs.

I am at my all time highest weight. You know it's bad when you still manage to look awful in a pair of Levi's. Anyhoo, this time I know that if I let things slide so much out of hand my knee joints, which already suffer due to lupus will put me in a wheelchair. I am 30 years old, if I don't do this now then there will be severe consequences later on.

This is my accountability post. My action plan is the following:

  • calorie counting otherwise known as CICO
  • walking, then when it won't kill my knees C25K (there is no option to swim around here unfortunately)
  • severe restriction on snacks and sweets (if I allow myself "a little" a little will become a lot, this is not my first rodeo)
  • when wanting to emotional-eat, play my spankin' new Taylor guitar. So instead of getting those feel-good hormones from food I'll get it from music (I've spent the budget of two year's worth of takeaway on this beauty so it'll remind me of not to order anything too. By the time I can order out I'll be not only slim but an excellent player)
  • continue with the anxiety medication which seems to be massively helping me to get our of the slump I've been in for the past year

And above all, I want to get back the confidence to be intimate with my partner. He is very supportive and in no way makes me feel bad, but I am so utterly revolted by myself that my sex drive's gone out the window. He deserves better and so do I.

If you've read this far thank you for allowing me to share ♥️

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Finally going to take weight loss seriously with the help of this community!

Hi everyone! I joined this community a bit ago when I started to lose weight around October 2020. I originally was doing well, eating a bit healthier and working out several nights a week. Around December of 2020 I had lost about 18 pounds. I was excited to finally be below 250 and maintaining that. I struggled with mental health and was a bit more depressed and the job I started in December 2020 was super stressful and I would work 12+ hour days, often leaving me to buy fast food or only cook quick foods at home like frozen pizza or something due to being super tired and stressed and depressed. Well I finally quit that job and now have landed my dream job! That dream job has a gym at the facility! I want to start actually being serious about losing weight like I was in October 2020. In January 2020 I started half heartedly working towards losing weight again and got on the proper medication for my medical concerns (that make it easy to gain weight and hard to lose weight sadly). I want to now try to get back into losing weight and eating healthier!

Right now I am 5'3" and my starting weight is 235 and my goal weight is 145. Just knowing the difference in those numbers scares me and makes it feel super daunting especially since I have always been overweight ever since I was elementary school..

Any tips on how to maintain eating healthy and maintain an exercise routine for when the newness and excitement wear off and it starts to feel arduous? Thank you all!!!

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Developing a healthier approach to dieting/food and scared. Context in post.

I'm a guy in my 30s. Have always yo-yo dieted. Either just off the rails, or very restrictive. Perpetually living in that binge/restrict cycle. I was at one point 300 lbs, many years ago. Got into boxing and martial arts, got down to a lean 215 (there was some extreme dieting in there)

Here I am again, all these years later, dieting pretty damn hard. Doing a hardcore PSMF protocol for well over a month. For context, I'm 6'1 and about 240. I've been in the gym and lifting weights for a couple months now, and thankfully have some decent muscle mass and my goal is to drop another 15 lbs, and then I'd be set. 225 I'm still reasonably lean (what I consider lean anyways) have some decent muscle mass and don't quite hate myself.

However, I'm ending this crazy diet next week since I'll be doing long hospital shifts overnight, and I'm just terrified to eat a normal calorie amount. I know a lot of people shed weight at 2000 cals or so, and here I am at 900-1300 daily, and afraid to be at 1800 daily.

Before, I'd do well, then go wild on weekends. No more of that. I'm actually looking forward to eating the "boring" foods everyone shits on, chicken/rice/broccoli, oats, fruit, etc. It's welcome after constantly being on-off keto, and doing this psmf where I'm basically eating egg whites, tuna, greek yogurt and chicken.

I do feel like I'm getting healthier, and not having such an emotional attachment to food, no binges lately, no 'cheat days' where I go HAM, and I've tracked calories and macros meticulously for 132 days straight now. I know intake can't be this low while lifting weights AND throwing the martial arts and cardio back in there, but damn it's terrifying to intentionally increase calories, not be a carbophobe, etc.

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Set an “Oh $hit!” Weight for yourself. Even if you start gaining again, it helps you from gaining too much back.

41/F. 5’4” HW: 167, CW 159 GW: 135

A long time ago when I first started my weight loss process, I weighed 166. I decided right then that I was NEVER going to weigh more than that again. I made it my OH $HIT! weight. In the following 15 years, I have dieted, exercised, fallen off the wagon for a variety of reasons, started over, fallen off, rinse and repeat. But since I made that rule for myself, I have been able to catch myself and DO something before spiraling out of control. It has been a good wake up call for me over the years that I’m sliding too deeply back into bad habits.

So many of us work so hard to lose weight and then something happens and it starts creeping back on and then next thing you know, you’ve gained all your weight back and then some. Set a point for yourself, not your current weight or goal weight but a realistic weight that you just can’t go over again. Give yourself some room for when you are overwhelmed and stressed but set a ceiling for yourself.

I know some people see this as planning to fail. I see it as mitigating bad points in my life.

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how our brain works...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T4PFt4czJw0

Okay so I find this video really interesting because it shows how food can change our brain. It shows the detrimental effects of bad food on our neural pathways but I think it also shows that making a habit of eating healthy food can also rewire our brains. Our brains are able to rewire themselves to not crave bad food by associating it with reward. A book I would recommend is 'Brain over Binge' by Kathryn Hansen as it gives you a technique to 'rewire' your brain to stop associating bad food with reward. One of the most interesting things about humans is that we genuinely can change ourselves inside and consequently outside too so there's hope for everyone if you are trying to change your body. Just gotta get through the transition phase. Sorry if this was explained kinda bad, I might be slightly drunk. Hope this helps someone anyways :)

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Finding healthy middle ground while depressed

So I'm just coming out on the other side of a deep depression. Towards the end of 2020 I was consuming mostly fast food and reached my heaviest weight ever (185lb, I'm 5'3"). I was working 12+ hour days in a physically and emotionally draining job, and I had zero energy to do anything after work other than binge on junk then sleep.

In January and February my depression got even worse, and I actually went totally the opposite and lost my appetite entirely. I've always been an emotional eater so this was completely foreign to me. I lived off of ensure and lean cuisine mac and cheese, as those were the only things I could force myself to eat. Needless to say, I dropped 15lbs very quickly and felt very ill.

Now that I've switched jobs, started a new medication regime, and had an eye opening health scare, I'm trying to find a healthy middle ground while hopefully losing some weight. I've limited myself to one fast food meal per week, got a meal kit subscription, drink mostly water, etc. In the past when I tried to diet I always go too strict and set myself up for failure so I'm trying to just make small adjustments. I'll admit too that I find calorie counting really tedious and annoying; it's hard enough to convince myself to cook, but then if you add on top that I need to figure out the calories for each amount of each ingredient and plug it all in to some app? That's too overwhelming and I'll just end up giving up and ordering a pizza.

Now that I've typed this all out I feel so whiny. The thing is, I struggle just to do simple things like getting out of bed, brushing my teeth, showering, etc, so something like losing weight just feels entirely too much to even think about. I just don't want to continue causing damage to my body while I'm working on the basics. And yes, I am in the market for a therapist but I lost insurance for awhile and just got it back, and every therapist I can find is booked solid for several months.

I'm not really sure what I'm looking for in response here, but I think I just need reassurance and support moving forward, and maybe some ideas for healthy eating while depressed.

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Advice for eating at an Italian restaurant?

Hi all, I’m currently eating in a calorie deficit to lose weight. I have some extended family in town and we’re all going out to dinner. We’re going to a local Italian place (I tried to push for the local seafood place because that has healthier options, but no, they had to insist on Italian).

I’m feeling really anxious about this dinner because I’ve eaten at that restaurant before, and while the food is delicious, it’s VERY calorie dense. It seems like everything there is soaked in butter or has a ton of carbs. And, being a small family-owned place, they don’t have calories listed on the menu or on the website.

My daily calorie goal is 1,770. I had a 150 cal breakfast, and I skipped lunch to try to prepare for this, so hopefully since I have 1,620 calories to spend I will be okay. I guess I’m just really stressed about it because I’m recovering from food addiction and binge eating. I have done SO good the past 3 weeks, and I’m really worried that this dinner will put me back in a cycle of bingeing.

Does anybody have any advice for eating low-calorie at a restaurant like this? I have no idea what to order. Also, does anybody have any advice about the psychological aspect? I just feel like I can’t trust myself around food and I’m afraid I will pig out tonight and get off track, so I’m super stressed.

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In Onederland finally! In Ketosis. Once in Ketosis, the body just doesn't easily get out of it.

It has been a struggle to get to Onederland, in the end I found that I was trying too hard and stressing myself which was in and of itself contributing to my weight gain. I let go and de-stressed and started a low carb diet. The low carb diet really works for me. Last night I had a 2% latte, and a tea with some sugar and I still entered into the lower end of 199. Not even the higher end but I woke up to 199.2. https://imgur.com/a/KaqnWq4 <--- 199.2 on the scale this morning. Last night I weighed in 201 which made me proud of myself. I believe between last night and this morning I lost some fat and also some water weight. My body is in Ketosis fat burning mode now so it is burning fat around the clock as I sleep. I looked in the mirror and my mid section (love handles etc etc) look noticeably less so last night as I slept some fat burning did happen for sure. I did some push ups before I went to sleep last night and I believe that accelerated my fat loss over night. Interesting thing is that when I was doing the push ups this time (I haven't done them for 2 months) I noticed they were very easy to do, I go to 20 without barely breaking a sweat and breathing hard. I could've kept going up to 40 if I so pleased. Today I will do abs. One guy mentioned I should do strength training when on the Keto without any Carb intake or even taking protein. He said the body will use the fat for energy stores. I will start getting more toned but not bigger muscles he said. I mentioned to him that I always get fat if I start eating more and eating carbs when strength training so he gave me that advice.

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https://i.redd.it/ciq6jbcqvz171.jpg

The far right picture is my latest progress image from last night. The one of the far left is me in 2019 when I weighed 159 before losing myself with some bad habits. At my highest I weighed 214. When I was 159 I felt good and slim and light weight and my inner thighs didn't touch. Right now at 199 the inner thighs almost don't touch. I gotta make sure I continue on Keto as I can easily regain that fat weight if I don't keep up the low Carb diet.

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There was also a time where I did a lot of lifting and started getting more muscles beneath the fat.

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1V9VVgxRzPTw68EbBJV7Nymo50I5Bn-fE/view?usp=sharing

The good thing now is that this is pretty much considered like a cut, and when I do go back towards 159lbs again, I should see more prominent abs and definition. If I get down to 180lbs I will for sure start getting more of a shredded look. I am focused now, can't go up in weight again, only downwards from here on.

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An uncomfortable reminder of why I'm doing it

The weather is finally getting warmer here, so I went for a 20km walk today. I wore shorts because the sun was shining, then about halfway along the track my inner thighs started to feel sore. I suddenly remember... fat + summer = heat rash.

I'm taking it as a motivational boost. I can't wait for the day when my thighs don't rub together so much when I walk. It was also a reminder to wear longer shorts next time!

On a really positive note though, the rest of my body felt great while I was walking! I'm actually noticing how much more flexible my waist feels when I walk (is that a thing?) and my my posture is feeling better. I haven't lost that much weight wise yet, but it's so nice to see these differences already and know that they are just going to keep on coming.

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Emotional eating...how did you overcome it?

Age 10. I started having major anxiety issues. Alot of my anxiety was a fear of throwing up. So to help my anxiety I just stopped eating when I was not at home. This meant I went to school without breakfast didn't eat lunch. I was starting by the time I came home from school and would binge bc I felt safe enough to eat.

Age 18. I was away at college and my anxiety was back. It had come and gone over the years but medication helped. But being away from home made it spike. I ate enough but not much. I came home for a holiday break and just ate and ate and ate. Again safe.

Age 21. I took a break from college and was working my first grownup job. Sundays I worked in the office alone. It was busy and I didn't really get a chance to eat. Was super hungry. I would pick up nachos on the way home from work and watch tv and eat nachos (usually followed by ice cream). I was home and relaxed and celebrating the feeling of accomplishment of a long and productive day.

I'm 36 now and in recent years I've realized that these early experiences (and others like them) are a big part of why I'm overweight. It's not only about the type of food I want it's the amount of food that feels safe and celebratory to me. I have trained myself to view the reward for a job well done to be food I love in large quantities. I think this is why I've struggled so much with calorie counting. Bc it neglects the emotional side for me. If I have a tough day at work but eating half a pizza and half a pint of ice cream would make me feel good emotionally...then eating one slice and and a low cal ice cream bar just doesn't meet that emotional need. It leaves me emotionally longing.

Has anyone else dealt with something similar? Is there a way to untrain myself view food as a reward or celebration? Or is there a way to train myself to accept different or smaller amounts of food to be just as effective in this?

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